{"id":4332,"date":"2021-08-22T17:28:48","date_gmt":"2021-08-22T17:28:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kuttab-rumahquran.com\/?p=4332"},"modified":"2021-08-22T17:28:48","modified_gmt":"2021-08-22T17:28:48","slug":"bolehkah-membeda-bedakan-pemberian-kepada-anak","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kuttab-rumahquran.com\/index.php\/2021\/08\/22\/bolehkah-membeda-bedakan-pemberian-kepada-anak\/","title":{"rendered":"Bolehkah Membeda-bedakan Pemberian kepada Anak?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Membedakan pemberian kepada anak bukanlah perbuatan tidak adil.<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Perhatikan kisah Nu’man bin Basyir yang merupakan perintah berbuat adil kepada anak.<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

\u0627\u0646\u0652\u0637\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0642\u064e \u0628\u0650\u064a \u0623\u064e\u0628\u0650\u064a \u064a\u064e\u062d\u0652\u0645\u0650\u0644\u064f\u0646\u0650\u064a \u0625\u0650\u0644\u064e\u0649 \u0631\u064e\u0633\u064f\u0648\u0644\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0647\u0650 \u0635\u064e\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0649 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0647\u064f \u0639\u064e\u0644\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0647\u0650 \u0648\u064e\u0633\u064e\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0645\u064e\u060c<\/p>\n

Aku berjalan bersama ayahku, kemudian ayahku membawaku kepada Rasulullah shalallahu’alaihi wa sallam.<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

\u0641\u064e\u0642\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e : \u064a\u064e\u0627 \u0631\u064e\u0633\u064f\u0648\u0644\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0647\u0650\u060c \u0627\u0634\u0652\u0647\u064e\u062f\u0652 \u0623\u064e\u0646\u0651\u0650\u064a \u0642\u064e\u062f\u0652 \u0646\u064e\u062d\u064e\u0644\u0652\u062a\u064f \u0627\u0644\u0646\u0651\u064f\u0639\u0652\u0645\u064e\u0627\u0646\u064e \u0643\u064e\u0630\u064e\u0627 \u0648\u064e\u0643\u064e\u0630\u064e\u0627 \u0645\u0650\u0646\u0652 \u0645\u064e\u0627\u0644\u0650\u064a.<\/p>\n

Kemudian ayahku berkata, “Wahai Rasulullah, saksikanlah bahwa aku telah memberi hadiah kepada Nu’man ini dan ini dari harta milikku.”<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

\u0641\u064e\u0642\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e : ” \u0623\u064e\u0643\u064f\u0644\u0651\u064e \u0628\u064e\u0646\u0650\u064a\u0643\u064e \u0642\u064e\u062f\u0652 \u0646\u064e\u062d\u064e\u0644\u0652\u062a\u064e \u0645\u0650\u062b\u0652\u0644\u064e \u0645\u064e\u0627 \u0646\u064e\u062d\u064e\u0644\u0652\u062a\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0646\u0651\u064f\u0639\u0652\u0645\u064e\u0627\u0646\u064e \u061f<\/p>\n

Kemudian Rasulullah shalallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam bersabda, “Apakah seluruh anakmu telah kau berikan hadiah serupa dengan yang kau berikan kepada Nu’man?”<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

” \u0642\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e : \u0644\u064e\u0627. \u0642\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e : ” \u0641\u064e\u0623\u064e\u0634\u0652\u0647\u0650\u062f\u0652 \u0639\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0649 \u0647\u064e\u0630\u064e\u0627 \u063a\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0631\u0650\u064a “\u060c<\/p>\n

Ayah Nu’man mengatakan, “tidak.” Kemudian Rasulullah bersabda, “kalau begitu persaksikan pada selainku.”<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

\u062b\u064f\u0645\u0651\u064e \u0642\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e : ” \u0623\u064e\u064a\u064e\u0633\u064f\u0631\u0651\u064f\u0643\u064e \u0623\u064e\u0646\u0652 \u064a\u064e\u0643\u064f\u0648\u0646\u064f\u0648\u0627 \u0625\u0650\u0644\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0643\u064e \u0641\u0650\u064a \u0627\u0644\u0652\u0628\u0650\u0631\u0651\u0650 \u0633\u064e\u0648\u064e\u0627\u0621\u064b \u061f ” \u0642\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e : \u0628\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0649. \u0642\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e : ” \u0641\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0627 \u0625\u0650\u0630\u064e\u0646\u0652 “.<\/p>\n

Kemudian Rasulullah bersabda, “apakah kamu senang jika mereka sama sama berbakti kepadamu?” Ayah Nu’man menjawab, “tentu.” Kemudian Rasulullah menjawab, “kalau begitu, jangan lakukan. ”<\/p>\n

(Hadits Riwayat Bukhari Muslim)<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Perhatikan sabda nabi shalallahu’alaihi wa sallam,<\/p>\n

\u0623\u064e\u0643\u064f\u0644\u0651\u064e \u0628\u064e\u0646\u0650\u064a\u0643\u064e \u0642\u064e\u062f\u0652 \u0646\u064e\u062d\u064e\u0644\u0652\u062a\u064e \u0645\u0650\u062b\u0652\u0644\u064e \u0645\u064e\u0627 \u0646\u064e\u062d\u064e\u0644\u0652\u062a\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0646\u0651\u064f\u0639\u0652\u0645\u064e\u0627\u0646\u064e \u061f<\/p>\n

dalam riwayat lain<\/p>\n

\u0623\u064e\u0643\u064f\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0647\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u0648\u064e\u0647\u064e\u0628\u0652\u062a\u064e \u0644\u064e\u0647\u064f \u0645\u0650\u062b\u0652\u0644\u064e \u0647\u064e\u0630\u064e\u0627 \u061f<\/p>\n

dalam riwayat lain<\/p>\n

\u0623\u064e\u0639\u0652\u0637\u064e\u064a\u0652\u062a\u064e \u0633\u064e\u0627\u0626\u0650\u0631\u064e \u0648\u064e\u0644\u064e\u062f\u0650\u0643\u064e \u0645\u0650\u062b\u0652\u0644\u064e \u0647\u064e\u0630\u064e\u0627 \u061f<\/p>\n

Semua menggunakan lafazh (\u0645\u0650\u062b\u0652\u0644\u064e) bukan (\u0633\u064e\u0648\u064e\u0627\u0621\u064b).<\/p>\n

Arti \u0645\u0650\u062b\u0652\u0644\u064e adalah \u0627\u0644\u0634\u0651\u0650\u0628\u0647 \u0648\u0627\u0644\u0646\u0638\u064a\u0631 yang artinya serupa dan sepadan berbeda dengan lafazh (\u0633\u064e\u0648\u064e\u0627\u0621\u064b) yang artinya \u0645\u0633\u062a\u0648\u064a yang artinya sama.<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Karena itu Syaikh Shalih Al Munajjid mengatakan,<\/p>\n

\u0648\u0644\u0627 \u064a\u062c\u0648\u0632 \u0644\u0647 \u0623\u0646 \u064a\u0641\u0627\u0648\u062a\u064e \u0641\u064a \u0627\u0644\u0639\u0637\u064a\u0629\u0650 \u0625\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0627 \u0644\u0633\u0628\u0628\u064d<\/p>\n

Tidak boleh membedakan pemberian kepada anak kecuali dengan sebab.<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Misal warisan yang harus membagi laki laki berbeda dengan perempuan.<\/p>\n

Misal usia dimana anak kecil diberi berbeda dengan anak yang sudah besar.<\/p>\n

Misal kebutuhan dibelikan mainan atau kebutuhan hidup.<\/p>\n

Misal hikmah tertentu untuk mendorong anak lebih bertakwa dengan memberi yang hafal Qur’an saja, yang akhlaknya baik saja dll.<\/p>\n

Semoga bermanfaat<\/p>\n

(Fawaid Abu Ahmad Ricki Al Malanjiy)<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Ingin dapat faidah faidah harian?,<\/p>\n

Yuk gabung di grup Info Kuttab Rumah Qur’an<\/p>\n

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Membedakan pemberian kepada anak bukanlah perbuatan tidak adil.   Perhatikan kisah Nu’man bin Basyir yang merupakan perintah berbuat adil kepada anak.   \u0627\u0646\u0652\u0637\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0642\u064e \u0628\u0650\u064a \u0623\u064e\u0628\u0650\u064a \u064a\u064e\u062d\u0652\u0645\u0650\u0644\u064f\u0646\u0650\u064a \u0625\u0650\u0644\u064e\u0649 \u0631\u064e\u0633\u064f\u0648\u0644\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0647\u0650 \u0635\u064e\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0649 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0647\u064f \u0639\u064e\u0644\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0647\u0650 \u0648\u064e\u0633\u064e\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0645\u064e\u060c Aku berjalan bersama ayahku, kemudian ayahku membawaku kepada Rasulullah shalallahu’alaihi wa sallam.   \u0641\u064e\u0642\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e : \u064a\u064e\u0627 \u0631\u064e\u0633\u064f\u0648\u0644\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0647\u0650\u060c \u0627\u0634\u0652\u0647\u064e\u062f\u0652 \u0623\u064e\u0646\u0651\u0650\u064a \u0642\u064e\u062f\u0652 \u0646\u064e\u062d\u064e\u0644\u0652\u062a\u064f \u0627\u0644\u0646\u0651\u064f\u0639\u0652\u0645\u064e\u0627\u0646\u064e \u0643\u064e\u0630\u064e\u0627 \u0648\u064e\u0643\u064e\u0630\u064e\u0627 \u0645\u0650\u0646\u0652 \u0645\u064e\u0627\u0644\u0650\u064a. Kemudian ayahku berkata, “Wahai Rasulullah, saksikanlah bahwa aku telah memberi hadiah kepada Nu’man ini dan ini dari harta milikku.”   \u0641\u064e\u0642\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e : ” \u0623\u064e\u0643\u064f\u0644\u0651\u064e \u0628\u064e\u0646\u0650\u064a\u0643\u064e \u0642\u064e\u062f\u0652 \u0646\u064e\u062d\u064e\u0644\u0652\u062a\u064e \u0645\u0650\u062b\u0652\u0644\u064e \u0645\u064e\u0627 \u0646\u064e\u062d\u064e\u0644\u0652\u062a\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0646\u0651\u064f\u0639\u0652\u0645\u064e\u0627\u0646\u064e \u061f Kemudian Rasulullah shalallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam bersabda, “Apakah seluruh anakmu telah kau berikan hadiah serupa dengan yang kau berikan kepada Nu’man?”   ” \u0642\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e : \u0644\u064e\u0627. \u0642\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e : ” \u0641\u064e\u0623\u064e\u0634\u0652\u0647\u0650\u062f\u0652 \u0639\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0649 \u0647\u064e\u0630\u064e\u0627 \u063a\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0631\u0650\u064a “\u060c Ayah Nu’man mengatakan, “tidak.” Kemudian Rasulullah bersabda, “kalau begitu persaksikan pada selainku.”   \u062b\u064f\u0645\u0651\u064e \u0642\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e : ” \u0623\u064e\u064a\u064e\u0633\u064f\u0631\u0651\u064f\u0643\u064e \u0623\u064e\u0646\u0652 \u064a\u064e\u0643\u064f\u0648\u0646\u064f\u0648\u0627 \u0625\u0650\u0644\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0643\u064e \u0641\u0650\u064a \u0627\u0644\u0652\u0628\u0650\u0631\u0651\u0650 \u0633\u064e\u0648\u064e\u0627\u0621\u064b \u061f ” \u0642\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e : \u0628\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0649. \u0642\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e : ” \u0641\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0627 \u0625\u0650\u0630\u064e\u0646\u0652 “. Kemudian Rasulullah bersabda, “apakah kamu senang jika mereka sama sama berbakti kepadamu?” Ayah Nu’man menjawab, “tentu.” Kemudian Rasulullah menjawab, “kalau begitu, jangan lakukan. ” (Hadits Riwayat Bukhari Muslim)   Perhatikan sabda nabi shalallahu’alaihi wa sallam, \u0623\u064e\u0643\u064f\u0644\u0651\u064e \u0628\u064e\u0646\u0650\u064a\u0643\u064e \u0642\u064e\u062f\u0652 \u0646\u064e\u062d\u064e\u0644\u0652\u062a\u064e \u0645\u0650\u062b\u0652\u0644\u064e \u0645\u064e\u0627 \u0646\u064e\u062d\u064e\u0644\u0652\u062a\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0646\u0651\u064f\u0639\u0652\u0645\u064e\u0627\u0646\u064e \u061f dalam riwayat lain \u0623\u064e\u0643\u064f\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0647\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u0648\u064e\u0647\u064e\u0628\u0652\u062a\u064e \u0644\u064e\u0647\u064f \u0645\u0650\u062b\u0652\u0644\u064e \u0647\u064e\u0630\u064e\u0627 \u061f dalam riwayat lain \u0623\u064e\u0639\u0652\u0637\u064e\u064a\u0652\u062a\u064e \u0633\u064e\u0627\u0626\u0650\u0631\u064e \u0648\u064e\u0644\u064e\u062f\u0650\u0643\u064e \u0645\u0650\u062b\u0652\u0644\u064e \u0647\u064e\u0630\u064e\u0627 \u061f Semua menggunakan lafazh (\u0645\u0650\u062b\u0652\u0644\u064e) bukan (\u0633\u064e\u0648\u064e\u0627\u0621\u064b). Arti \u0645\u0650\u062b\u0652\u0644\u064e adalah \u0627\u0644\u0634\u0651\u0650\u0628\u0647 \u0648\u0627\u0644\u0646\u0638\u064a\u0631 yang artinya serupa dan sepadan berbeda dengan lafazh (\u0633\u064e\u0648\u064e\u0627\u0621\u064b) yang artinya \u0645\u0633\u062a\u0648\u064a yang artinya sama.   Karena itu Syaikh Shalih Al Munajjid mengatakan, \u0648\u0644\u0627 \u064a\u062c\u0648\u0632 \u0644\u0647 \u0623\u0646 \u064a\u0641\u0627\u0648\u062a\u064e \u0641\u064a \u0627\u0644\u0639\u0637\u064a\u0629\u0650 \u0625\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0627 \u0644\u0633\u0628\u0628\u064d Tidak boleh membedakan pemberian kepada anak kecuali dengan sebab.   Misal warisan yang harus membagi laki laki berbeda dengan perempuan. Misal usia dimana anak kecil diberi berbeda dengan anak yang sudah besar. Misal kebutuhan dibelikan mainan atau kebutuhan hidup. Misal hikmah tertentu untuk mendorong anak lebih bertakwa dengan memberi yang hafal Qur’an saja, yang akhlaknya baik saja dll. 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-<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/kuttab-rumahquran.com\/index.php\/2021\/08\/22\/bolehkah-membeda-bedakan-pemberian-kepada-anak\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Bolehkah Membeda-bedakan Pemberian kepada Anak? -\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Membedakan pemberian kepada anak bukanlah perbuatan tidak adil.   Perhatikan kisah Nu’man bin Basyir yang merupakan perintah berbuat adil kepada anak.   \u0627\u0646\u0652\u0637\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0642\u064e \u0628\u0650\u064a \u0623\u064e\u0628\u0650\u064a \u064a\u064e\u062d\u0652\u0645\u0650\u0644\u064f\u0646\u0650\u064a \u0625\u0650\u0644\u064e\u0649 \u0631\u064e\u0633\u064f\u0648\u0644\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0647\u0650 \u0635\u064e\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0649 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0647\u064f \u0639\u064e\u0644\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0647\u0650 \u0648\u064e\u0633\u064e\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0645\u064e\u060c Aku berjalan bersama ayahku, kemudian ayahku membawaku kepada Rasulullah shalallahu’alaihi wa sallam.   \u0641\u064e\u0642\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e : \u064a\u064e\u0627 \u0631\u064e\u0633\u064f\u0648\u0644\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0647\u0650\u060c \u0627\u0634\u0652\u0647\u064e\u062f\u0652 \u0623\u064e\u0646\u0651\u0650\u064a \u0642\u064e\u062f\u0652 \u0646\u064e\u062d\u064e\u0644\u0652\u062a\u064f \u0627\u0644\u0646\u0651\u064f\u0639\u0652\u0645\u064e\u0627\u0646\u064e \u0643\u064e\u0630\u064e\u0627 \u0648\u064e\u0643\u064e\u0630\u064e\u0627 \u0645\u0650\u0646\u0652 \u0645\u064e\u0627\u0644\u0650\u064a. Kemudian ayahku berkata, “Wahai Rasulullah, saksikanlah bahwa aku telah memberi hadiah kepada Nu’man ini dan ini dari harta milikku.”   \u0641\u064e\u0642\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e : ” \u0623\u064e\u0643\u064f\u0644\u0651\u064e \u0628\u064e\u0646\u0650\u064a\u0643\u064e \u0642\u064e\u062f\u0652 \u0646\u064e\u062d\u064e\u0644\u0652\u062a\u064e \u0645\u0650\u062b\u0652\u0644\u064e \u0645\u064e\u0627 \u0646\u064e\u062d\u064e\u0644\u0652\u062a\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0646\u0651\u064f\u0639\u0652\u0645\u064e\u0627\u0646\u064e \u061f Kemudian Rasulullah shalallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam bersabda, “Apakah seluruh anakmu telah kau berikan hadiah serupa dengan yang kau berikan kepada Nu’man?”   ” \u0642\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e : \u0644\u064e\u0627. \u0642\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e : ” \u0641\u064e\u0623\u064e\u0634\u0652\u0647\u0650\u062f\u0652 \u0639\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0649 \u0647\u064e\u0630\u064e\u0627 \u063a\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0631\u0650\u064a “\u060c Ayah Nu’man mengatakan, “tidak.” Kemudian Rasulullah bersabda, “kalau begitu persaksikan pada selainku.”   \u062b\u064f\u0645\u0651\u064e \u0642\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e : ” \u0623\u064e\u064a\u064e\u0633\u064f\u0631\u0651\u064f\u0643\u064e \u0623\u064e\u0646\u0652 \u064a\u064e\u0643\u064f\u0648\u0646\u064f\u0648\u0627 \u0625\u0650\u0644\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0643\u064e \u0641\u0650\u064a \u0627\u0644\u0652\u0628\u0650\u0631\u0651\u0650 \u0633\u064e\u0648\u064e\u0627\u0621\u064b \u061f ” \u0642\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e : \u0628\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0649. \u0642\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e : ” \u0641\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0627 \u0625\u0650\u0630\u064e\u0646\u0652 “. Kemudian Rasulullah bersabda, “apakah kamu senang jika mereka sama sama berbakti kepadamu?” Ayah Nu’man menjawab, “tentu.” Kemudian Rasulullah menjawab, “kalau begitu, jangan lakukan. ” (Hadits Riwayat Bukhari Muslim)   Perhatikan sabda nabi shalallahu’alaihi wa sallam, \u0623\u064e\u0643\u064f\u0644\u0651\u064e \u0628\u064e\u0646\u0650\u064a\u0643\u064e \u0642\u064e\u062f\u0652 \u0646\u064e\u062d\u064e\u0644\u0652\u062a\u064e \u0645\u0650\u062b\u0652\u0644\u064e \u0645\u064e\u0627 \u0646\u064e\u062d\u064e\u0644\u0652\u062a\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0646\u0651\u064f\u0639\u0652\u0645\u064e\u0627\u0646\u064e \u061f dalam riwayat lain \u0623\u064e\u0643\u064f\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0647\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u0648\u064e\u0647\u064e\u0628\u0652\u062a\u064e \u0644\u064e\u0647\u064f \u0645\u0650\u062b\u0652\u0644\u064e \u0647\u064e\u0630\u064e\u0627 \u061f dalam riwayat lain \u0623\u064e\u0639\u0652\u0637\u064e\u064a\u0652\u062a\u064e \u0633\u064e\u0627\u0626\u0650\u0631\u064e \u0648\u064e\u0644\u064e\u062f\u0650\u0643\u064e \u0645\u0650\u062b\u0652\u0644\u064e \u0647\u064e\u0630\u064e\u0627 \u061f Semua menggunakan lafazh (\u0645\u0650\u062b\u0652\u0644\u064e) bukan (\u0633\u064e\u0648\u064e\u0627\u0621\u064b). Arti \u0645\u0650\u062b\u0652\u0644\u064e adalah \u0627\u0644\u0634\u0651\u0650\u0628\u0647 \u0648\u0627\u0644\u0646\u0638\u064a\u0631 yang artinya serupa dan sepadan berbeda dengan lafazh (\u0633\u064e\u0648\u064e\u0627\u0621\u064b) yang artinya \u0645\u0633\u062a\u0648\u064a yang artinya sama.   Karena itu Syaikh Shalih Al Munajjid mengatakan, \u0648\u0644\u0627 \u064a\u062c\u0648\u0632 \u0644\u0647 \u0623\u0646 \u064a\u0641\u0627\u0648\u062a\u064e \u0641\u064a \u0627\u0644\u0639\u0637\u064a\u0629\u0650 \u0625\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0627 \u0644\u0633\u0628\u0628\u064d Tidak boleh membedakan pemberian kepada anak kecuali dengan sebab.   Misal warisan yang harus membagi laki laki berbeda dengan perempuan. Misal usia dimana anak kecil diberi berbeda dengan anak yang sudah besar. Misal kebutuhan dibelikan mainan atau kebutuhan hidup. Misal hikmah tertentu untuk mendorong anak lebih bertakwa dengan memberi yang hafal Qur’an saja, yang akhlaknya baik saja dll. 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Kemudian ayahku berkata, “Wahai Rasulullah, saksikanlah bahwa aku telah memberi hadiah kepada Nu’man ini dan ini dari harta milikku.”   \u0641\u064e\u0642\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e : ” \u0623\u064e\u0643\u064f\u0644\u0651\u064e \u0628\u064e\u0646\u0650\u064a\u0643\u064e \u0642\u064e\u062f\u0652 \u0646\u064e\u062d\u064e\u0644\u0652\u062a\u064e \u0645\u0650\u062b\u0652\u0644\u064e \u0645\u064e\u0627 \u0646\u064e\u062d\u064e\u0644\u0652\u062a\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0646\u0651\u064f\u0639\u0652\u0645\u064e\u0627\u0646\u064e \u061f Kemudian Rasulullah shalallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam bersabda, “Apakah seluruh anakmu telah kau berikan hadiah serupa dengan yang kau berikan kepada Nu’man?”   ” \u0642\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e : \u0644\u064e\u0627. \u0642\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e : ” \u0641\u064e\u0623\u064e\u0634\u0652\u0647\u0650\u062f\u0652 \u0639\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0649 \u0647\u064e\u0630\u064e\u0627 \u063a\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0631\u0650\u064a “\u060c Ayah Nu’man mengatakan, “tidak.” Kemudian Rasulullah bersabda, “kalau begitu persaksikan pada selainku.”   \u062b\u064f\u0645\u0651\u064e \u0642\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e : ” \u0623\u064e\u064a\u064e\u0633\u064f\u0631\u0651\u064f\u0643\u064e \u0623\u064e\u0646\u0652 \u064a\u064e\u0643\u064f\u0648\u0646\u064f\u0648\u0627 \u0625\u0650\u0644\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0643\u064e \u0641\u0650\u064a \u0627\u0644\u0652\u0628\u0650\u0631\u0651\u0650 \u0633\u064e\u0648\u064e\u0627\u0621\u064b \u061f ” \u0642\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e : \u0628\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0649. \u0642\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e : ” \u0641\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0627 \u0625\u0650\u0630\u064e\u0646\u0652 “. Kemudian Rasulullah bersabda, “apakah kamu senang jika mereka sama sama berbakti kepadamu?” Ayah Nu’man menjawab, “tentu.” Kemudian Rasulullah menjawab, “kalau begitu, jangan lakukan. ” (Hadits Riwayat Bukhari Muslim)   Perhatikan sabda nabi shalallahu’alaihi wa sallam, \u0623\u064e\u0643\u064f\u0644\u0651\u064e \u0628\u064e\u0646\u0650\u064a\u0643\u064e \u0642\u064e\u062f\u0652 \u0646\u064e\u062d\u064e\u0644\u0652\u062a\u064e \u0645\u0650\u062b\u0652\u0644\u064e \u0645\u064e\u0627 \u0646\u064e\u062d\u064e\u0644\u0652\u062a\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0646\u0651\u064f\u0639\u0652\u0645\u064e\u0627\u0646\u064e \u061f dalam riwayat lain \u0623\u064e\u0643\u064f\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0647\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u0648\u064e\u0647\u064e\u0628\u0652\u062a\u064e \u0644\u064e\u0647\u064f \u0645\u0650\u062b\u0652\u0644\u064e \u0647\u064e\u0630\u064e\u0627 \u061f dalam riwayat lain \u0623\u064e\u0639\u0652\u0637\u064e\u064a\u0652\u062a\u064e \u0633\u064e\u0627\u0626\u0650\u0631\u064e \u0648\u064e\u0644\u064e\u062f\u0650\u0643\u064e \u0645\u0650\u062b\u0652\u0644\u064e \u0647\u064e\u0630\u064e\u0627 \u061f Semua menggunakan lafazh (\u0645\u0650\u062b\u0652\u0644\u064e) bukan (\u0633\u064e\u0648\u064e\u0627\u0621\u064b). Arti \u0645\u0650\u062b\u0652\u0644\u064e adalah \u0627\u0644\u0634\u0651\u0650\u0628\u0647 \u0648\u0627\u0644\u0646\u0638\u064a\u0631 yang artinya serupa dan sepadan berbeda dengan lafazh (\u0633\u064e\u0648\u064e\u0627\u0621\u064b) yang artinya \u0645\u0633\u062a\u0648\u064a yang artinya sama.   Karena itu Syaikh Shalih Al Munajjid mengatakan, \u0648\u0644\u0627 \u064a\u062c\u0648\u0632 \u0644\u0647 \u0623\u0646 \u064a\u0641\u0627\u0648\u062a\u064e \u0641\u064a \u0627\u0644\u0639\u0637\u064a\u0629\u0650 \u0625\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0627 \u0644\u0633\u0628\u0628\u064d Tidak boleh membedakan pemberian kepada anak kecuali dengan sebab.   Misal warisan yang harus membagi laki laki berbeda dengan perempuan. Misal usia dimana anak kecil diberi berbeda dengan anak yang sudah besar. Misal kebutuhan dibelikan mainan atau kebutuhan hidup. Misal hikmah tertentu untuk mendorong anak lebih bertakwa dengan memberi yang hafal Qur’an saja, yang akhlaknya baik saja dll. 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